Editorial policy

Who writes here

Everything on this site is written by Nathan Gray. That's a pen name. I use it to protect my wife's and my family's privacy, not to hide from accountability. The story behind it is real.

I write from lived experience: more than twenty years of hiding a porn addiction, and the years of recovery since. I am not a licensed clinician, therapist, doctor, or pastor. What you read here is what I've learned walking this road, shared as honestly as I can.

How we handle claims

• Statistics and research claims are cited or cut. If an article states a number or says "research shows," it links to a reputable source. If we can't find one we trust, the claim comes out.
• Personal experience is labelled as personal experience. When something is my story or what worked for me, I say so. It isn't presented as a universal rule.
• No medical advice. Nothing here diagnoses, treats, or replaces care from a qualified professional. If something you read raises a medical or mental-health question, please take it to a doctor or licensed counselor.
• This isn't a substitute for professional help. These guides and tools are meant to sit alongside real support: a counselor, a recovery group, a pastor, honest friends.
• Never explicit. We write about addiction honestly without describing explicit content.

If you're in crisis: contact your local emergency services. In the US, you can call or text 988, the Suicide & Crisis Lifeline, free and available 24/7.

Corrections

If you spot something wrong (a broken source, an outdated fact, a claim that overreaches), please tell me at woundedhealercollection@gmail.com. Include the page and what you think needs fixing. I read every message and will correct mistakes as quickly as I can.

Articles show the date they were last updated, so you can see when a page was last reviewed.

AI assistance

I use writing and editing tools, including AI assistants, to help with things like structure, proofreading, and building this website. The story, the experience, and the final say on every word are mine. Facts are checked against sources under the rules above, not taken on a tool's word.

Money, affiliates, and ads

• No affiliate links. When we point you to an outside resource, we earn nothing from it.
• No paid placements or sponsored content. No one pays to be recommended here.
• The books sold here are the author's own. Some guides are free; some cost a few dollars. That's how the site pays for itself, and articles will point you toward them when one genuinely fits.

Questions about any of this? Write to me. You can also read how we protect your privacy.